LOVE, Kloudiia

… it could be also a hug!

What am I talking about? It’s our love languages!

Finally, after hearing all the accolades on this book, I bought it from MPH Bookstore and finished reading it. At last!

I’m referring to this wonderful book by Dr Gary Chapman – “The Five Love Languages“.

This is a very readable book. Why do I say that? Because of the way it is written, with lots of real life couple stories that Dr Chapman shared through his experience of working with them to resolve their marital issues.

“Kloudiia 

Had been a week never speak to my girlfirend since 31 Dec 2006 after I went to her house to help her paint her house.

I went specially to help her and so that we can spend the last day of the year together, but she give my a cold shoulder the whole day.

After the painting we celebrate the new year with her mum and sister (quite in good term with her family). After that when I was going home, I ask her do she need me anymore for 2007? She answer she can’t feel anything for me and currently want to be alone and ask to give her time to think about it.

I was waiting at a traffic light junction the other way. Wait, wait, wait.

Then all of a sudden, I almost choked on a cloud of smoke. Yeah, you guessed what happened. A smoker was standing right in front of me – smoking. The smoke that he exhaled was brought upon flat on my face by the wind.

That wasn’t the first time, and I know it won’t be the last too. Many a time I had to encounter such smoke attacks when smokers walking in front of me can’t resist their need to have a cigarette, even when they are walking.

“Kloudiia 

I’ve one question for you. I’m in my mid 30′s & I’m an average, rather ok looking type. The problem is that I feel that guys are attracted to me but they don’t go after me. I can only become buddies with them, nothing more. It’s between platonic love and actual love. Nothing more than that. What’s wrong? Maybe I fear commitment & I like to have freedom or perhaps I’m only the 5 mins hot type, after the cooling off, back to square one.

Like this instance, a guy was interested in me & asked my friend about me & now, they’re together.

A gift must come from someone.

Part 2 of this entry has got nothing to do with the items, but very much to do with the sender. Or should I put it this way. This post has got very much to do with “the” sender, one whose identity had been kept a mystery until he found the right time to reveal himself.

It’s the mystery sender. So what’s the secrecy all about you may wonder. Me too.

In less than thirty days, Valentine’s Day is coming again!

Are you looking forward to it? Or are you dreading it? Or is it just another day for you?

Whatever it is for you I’m not sure. But what I’m sure is it’s certainly a day when merchants sit gleefully behind their desk counting the thick wads of cash at the end of the day!

So, as a Love Coach, I should be saying something about Valentine’s Day, shouldn’t I?

Ok, let’s see what I can come up with to give you guys some goodies lined up as we count down to V Day.

“Hi, I would like to ask is there so call a perfect couple? Will the chemistry be gone after couple of years in a relationship? Can chemistry be created, if not how can a couple get marry if there isn’t any chemistry formed? Please advice..” - D

“Has society today make it so hard to keep a marriage going?” - AT 

“Do you think the length of time a couple known each other before marriage a good indication of how their marriage will turn out?” - H

“Is there really real everlasting love in this world right now as there are a lot of temptations around?” - J 

Look at this page.

Tino has done it again. Last year he collected 130 faces of bloggers. This time round, he aims to bring 2,000 bloggers out of 55 million blogs there are now (according to him) into one page.

Bloggers have created a niche for themselves so strongly that even the media cannot neglect their presence. 

Can you see my face in that page? Never mind if you can’t, for I shall make things easy for you. See, the first one from the left is me! (Ok, the page is much bigger and my face isn’t really the first. The small square is what I’ve cut out hee hee)

Two days ago I got a sweet and pleasant surprise in my Inbox.

It was a message from a man. No, it wasn’t a love declaration mail haha *roll eyes*

It’s a “Thank You” email. Yippie!

I just want to thank you on your work it has helped me greatly to enhance my communication and understanding on loving and committed relationships. I never had a problem with relationships just I couldnt hold a serious or loving relationship. Thanks to you I see the light, so I’m thanking you.

CC

“Kloudiia 

I used to have a very good girlfriend.. but I disappointed her.. Gambling and owing lots of debt caused her to leave me. We have been together for 7 long years, but she has also left me for 7 long hard years. I have since changed. I’m still waiting for her till now. What should I do? I sms to ask her for a date and always got turned down.. most of my friends ask me to let go.. but I really can’t. People say it’s heaven’s will… I say I wanted to control my own will. I really miss her alot… What should I did to win her back?? 7 long years of waiting is really very, very hard on me.. Please help.” – RK