Ok, finally we are getting on par with Top 10 Women Turn-Ons series.

Dishing out the sixth episode in this 10-parter series, we continue our search for the answer to a man’s heart. Ok, maybe not the answer, but at least some good and useful clues for all the single women out there.

Top 10 Men Turn-Ons #6: Do I Look Like I Care?

The heading makes the woman out as someone with an attitude, doesn’t it? Well, that’s what a heading is for. To grab your attention and yet not giving you the real deal until you read on…

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Click on this link to do a quick 10 minute test to discover what type of person you are.

There are a total of 16 types of personality, and this test was developed for the TV programme ‘What Am I Like? The Personality Test’ on BBC.

So go ahead and take this test. Even if it’s just for fun.

[tags]personality test, BBC, personality, MBTI, DISC[/tags]

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“Hi Kloudiia,

I have read your ebook on attraction and I really feel despondent after finishing it. You see, my problem is that since communication is the most vital tool to starting a relationship, how do I go about doing so when I am cursed with a speech impediment?

Everytime I talk, people look at me like as if I have some disease and snigger behind my back about my obvious deficiency in the speech department. As a result I have few friends and even when I have friends, they are all guys. Speaking up in class to answer questions make the girls sneer at my defects and giggle behind my back.

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You met this great guy and you’ve been dating each other for some time. Not in an exclusive relationship, but you have been spending time together. Phone calls that lasted for more than an hour, flirty smses are exchanged.

You feel good about him.

Now is the million dollar question that you want to find out.

Does he like you? Is he into you, or not?

How to know the answer? What are the tell-tale signs that he is into you?  

Well, besides using your woman’s intuition which is not something I can describe here nor teach, I’ll do my best to “simplify” this complicated thing call “love”.

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“Hey Kloudiia,

I’m 16 and I met a guy late last year and he happens to be a great guy. We used to talk to each other often, even staying up through the night chatting online. He is 3 years older then me and ever since I met him, I regarded him as a mentor and an older brother. Months passed and I started to have feelings for him. I just admire him. His awesome personality – extremely funny and witty, mature and he’s good looking as well. I’ve told several friends about this and somehow he got to know about, thus he has been slightly different. He usually teases my other girl-friends but leaves me out (I still wonder why, haha). I want to tell him my feelings but I am just too shy.. because, he’s popular among other girls and I myself ain’t a good looker..

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“Dear Kloudiia,

I am 18 and my boyfriend of almost 2 yrs is 23. He had just came back from his overseas study of a year. Ever since he is back, he had not been replying me frequently. Partly due to not having a phone line. I can only contact him by emails. I felt that he is kind of ‘inviting’ distance between us and it weighs my heart down. I asked him whether he felt the distance and he said maybe and that he just feels like being alone sometimes. I really don’t know what to do now. I still love him very much and i think he still do. Do you think our relationship is over or that he just wants some space? Is there any way to win his attention back again?” - Y

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Yes, that’s the lesson brought home when I watched the episode of America’s popular recruitment reality TV show produced by Donald Trump ”The Apprentice V” on Channel 5 last night.

The girls team Synergy won. They seemed to have started at a losing end as they didn’t get a single cheerleader (who ”sold” their exclusivity to the boys) and there wasn’t any pre-sales marketing involved like flyers, announcements and all.

But they won! The boys team Gold Rush lost by a huge margin of USD 1,000!

But Gold Rush had a spectacular turn-out at their booth, wasn’t it? Yes, they did.

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“Hi Kloudia,

I am in love with a married man. Though it’s mistake that should have never taken place, it wasn’t easy for me either. As much as his wife is hurt over the affair, I am equally tormented over the whole affair. If loving someone hurts so much, I wouldn’t have started. But now I have found him, it’s so difficult to let him go. But deep down inside my heart, I know someday we are going to part.” - J 

Dear J

Loving someone can be the best thing to happen to anybody. Yet, love can bring one heartaches too.

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I am in the process of reading, sorting out and responding to the influx of mails asking me to advice on their love, marriage, dating and relationship challenges.  

Here are five questions I’ve picked and the reason why I am putting them together in one post is because either the nature of the questions are similar (the first three) or they really require simple, short and sweet replies from me.

Other questions which require a more lengthy response I will put it as one post entry. So if you sent me your question, please give me some time to answer them. Thanks

Let the Q&A roll now…  

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Now, this lady here barks and bites, virtually. But she’s honest too!

She gives no qualms about airing her views on her blog, as candidly as you can hear it from the horse’s mouth. Maybe that’s why she’s got massive traffic flowing to her site when she don’t even allow comments, only trackbacks like what I’m doing now.

Why am I choosing to post her entry here? Because the point she made in this entry hit a nail on the head and it brings home an excellent point that I’ve been telling people about love and relationships.

Here’s an extract:

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