LOVE, Kloudiia

It’s another Thursday Thirteen week!

While I was supposed to be writing about this last week, I changed my mind and opted to write about 13 Things That Inspire Me instead for my first installment of this meme series.

So, if you have known 5 things about me, there are still 13 more left to be discovered.

Here’s the blaze… (Gosh all these meme is making it seem as if we bloggers have loads of secrets kept within us? Haha, and I thought we’re one of the more open ones to expose our thoughts and opinions! Hmm, well, I am grateful that I have this channel to let you know more about me. It’s a blessing )  

If you are my subscriber, you’ll probably have received my gift for you – 2 love secrets revealed, fresh out of the oven!

What love secrets? Secrets to a loving and lasting relationship, my friend.

And what’s that?

That’s what my book is all about! Yes, you get to read these 2 secrets now, before my book is even launched.

Along with those 2 secrets is a tantalising and very tempting offer you don’t want to miss, really.

To your love and dating success friends!

Go here now – “I want my love secrets Kloudiia!”

“Dear Kloudiia

I really need your help with this one. I’ve broken off with my ex-boyfriend, B, of 3 mths in 2001. I loved him but his inexperience & insensitivity in handling a relationship became intoleratable that I had to let go. I found S in the process & took him in as a partner.

With S, it didn’t spark off as love; I just needed him to mend my broken heart. But alas, it dragged on and on. Now, I’m customarily engaged to him after almost 5 years of dating. But truthfully, I still didn’t feel for him.

I had an epiphany the night before, while I was in bed at about 430am.

So I’m going to do a self-experiement. For 7 days, I am not going to complain about anything or anybody. I want to see how my life and other’s lives will be better when I don’t say or think anything negative about unpleasant people or situations that tend to upset me.

But I thought that’s not enough. Why not I learn to be grateful for it instead? For every complaint that I don’t make, I will find something to be grateful for, and express my gratitude.  

Is that Fann Wong? Is that really Fann Wong? (well, writing this post lets me discover the official fan club of Fann - in the link given. Gosh, this lady even has a forum. Cool…)

You could be asking this question too when you are watching the movie “Just Follow Law“ 《我在政府部门的日子》 - the latest local movie by Jack Neo’s production.

And I must say, this is one really good Singapore movie! Ok Fann, your acting had indeed upped one notch here. Keep it up!

My cousin obviously is asking for it.

He went around flaunting the number of red packets he got yesterday, by putting them in his shirt pocket! So imagine a guy with his pocket full of red packets sticking out. And he just went gleefully with his hands cupped and wishing everyone “Gong Xi Fa Cai” while adding to his collection by pointing to his pocket, signalling to the others to just slot their red packets in.

Arrghhh, what an obnoxious young man he is!

“Kloudiia

猪年来了！家家户户齐拜年！

祝福你门：

天天开心，身体健康，万事如意，心想事成哦！

新的一年，新的希望。把过去的累积成人生最最宝贵的经验，然后，用最积极，诚恳的态度，勇往直前，实现你的愿望吧，我亲爱的朋友及读者们。

如果你还单身，祝愿你今年里找到真爱，从此甜甜蜜蜜。

如果你已婚，我这祝愿你和你的另一半，永远恩恩爱爱，所有感觉都尽在不言中。。。

恭喜发财！

Old habits die hard.

Really? I wonder who said that, and what was his purpose for saying that.

To have a grand excuse not to do anything to get rid of those bad addictions, disempowering patterns in his life and lousy attitude towards change improvement?

Or simply to just remain status quo and refuse to be better?

What if the habits are, good ones?

In this case, I don’t really think they’ll want those habits to die, so technically speaking, that statement doesn’t apply then.

So we’re left with – bad habits.

“I am a divorcee & have found someone whom I can get along with pretty well. She’s also a divorcee but she’s only interested in Caucasians. I have been rejected twice by her and I don’t know whether I should try the third time or remain as a very good friend to her. She preferred that we remain as platonic friends & we are in this platonic relationship for almost 2 years now. So, tell me…should I continue to wait for her or should I just give up? The other thing is that she’s the one that I have been searching for & sometimes it gets kind of tired trying to find another lady like her.