LOVE, Kloudiia

Men hate to be controlled, especially by women. Men need their space.

Is this really true? Or does the fact that they want to feel like the boss in the family hold more grounds?

Whether or not your man wants to be the boss, as a woman, I feel there’s a need to know this.

Nobody likes to be controlled, regardless of the gender. But there is an added blow to a man’s ego when he has to answer every move to a woman, be it his mother or his wife. Sadly, especially to his wife. And this applies to areas like who they are befriending, who they are meeting, where they go, how they handle their finances (or rather how they are spending their monthly budget), what they eat etc.

I skipped several weeks of posting this series. Now I’ll make it up by writing 26 instead of 13 stuff.

Nah, I’m kidding. Good things are not meant to be produced wholesale, right?

Alright, Thursday Thirteen #4 will have me revealing the 13 Unspoken Rules Of Dating.

Enjoy!

 

 

“Kloudiia

Sigh..I don’t know how to say..

Hmm.. I don’t feel happy with the relationship just start for about a week, Since I accepted him as a boyfriend, I never feel happy, but when he’s not calling / messaging me, I miss him alot..I feel like our relationship is unhealthy…

Well, actually I only meet him once last time 4 years++ ago, when I was in KL, after that we lost contact..then I move to SG, and in May 2006 when I viewed my last email which I sent to him, I wanted to delete but I accidently resent to him…then we kept in touch by using email or msn for about 7 months.- ADear A

Thanks to TofuMonkey, who gave me the inspiration to write this post. Well, not to rub it in, but having your lap top crush on you without any recent back up done is indeed very, very painful.

He lost a lot of important data.

There are devices to back up your data in your computer. Yet, there are people who don’t do that on a regular basis. I’m training myself to do it much more frequently, ever since the near-heart-attack-induced fright I got on an important day. I got lucky, as my laptop revived itself the next day.

Dear friend/reader/visitor:

If you have been watching the changing faces of my site banner, you would have also noticed something else.

In case you haven’t, I’ve changed my website’s name! Finally!

Whew, after so many months of coming up with names, deliberating, debating blah blah blah, this name just popped up into my head all of a sudden, at a time when I was neither thinking of it nor asking for it.

Is that a reflection on how people like to say “Do not seek love, for love will come and find you, when you are ready?”

I got this in an email. Hope you will enjoy and be blessed with this story. Not so much to do with religion, but more to do with life.

A married lady was expecting a birthday gift from her husband. For many months she had admired a beautiful diamond ring in a showroom, and knowing her husband could afford it, she told him that was all she wanted. As her birthday approached, this lady awaited signs that her husband had purchased the diamond ring.

“Hi Kloudiia,Used to know this girl that came over from Shanghai and get to work along for a while. Now she is back in Shanghai and since then we had been chatting in msn. I am quite fond of her, but doesn’t know what’s her thinking of me, and due to we stay far away from each other, we never had any chance of meeting with each other except to chat in msn. I had a thinking of going over there to work in order to be with her, so do you think this relationship may work out and what’s your advice on this matter?” - JH

In case you have missed this, well, here is the transcript on my interview with Radio Singapore International on my book The 69 Love Notes – Secrets To A Loving And Lasting Relationship.

To read the transcript and listen to the mp3, click here.  

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Yes, I’m one of the firsts to watch Spiderman 3 on it’s screening yesterday! How excited, as I’d usually count myself lucky if I could catch a show before it ends its run.

Full of action, once again. Now Spidey has to fight not the usual one, but three villians all in the 2-hour plus movie. Romance is still intense in the air between him and Mary Jane, who had to struggle with her own career and dream as a fledgling broadway star.

Every movie will has it’s own stories to tell, depending on which angle we choose to look at it and interpret.

Happy Labour’s Day to all of you, my dear friends. Happy Birthday to one very close friend of mine too

I’m feeling very nice and happy today. Must be the breeze that’s caressing my cheeks while I am working. I’m in a mood for story telling!

Since it’s Labour’s Day, I thought I’ll just bring you some well-known fables to jolt our memories, hopefully we’ll gain more insights this time round.

First up is -

The Elves and the Shoemaker