LOVE, Kloudiia

“Kloudiia

I’m an 18 year old girl. Young, pretty, attractive. My boyfriend is 28. Age doesn’t matter to us. He is a director of the company that I’m working at. We are together almost 1 1/2years. I felt very insecure. We never leak out our relationship to anyone.

Few months ago, he met a girl from a night club and he told me he treats her as a close friend. Yes they did went to bed. Right now, he has not been to her house for 4 months. What’s bothering me most is does he love me? He still has his ex girlfriend’s photo on his working desk. I felt so stupid. Any advice? I dont wanna end up this relationship with him.” - S

I saw this incident 2 weeks ago when I was on my way to see the doctor.

Standing at the traffic junction waiting for the light to turn green, there was a mother and a child right in front of me. Before the light turned green, the mother tugged at the child to cross the road.

“Wait mom!” the daughter gave a light yell. She looked about 3-5 years old to me. (Ok, I know that’s a pretty big gap, but seriously I can’t tell the age of a child yet *oops!*)

Wow, am I missing out on all the action happening at ping.sg. When I finally logged into my server and casually checked my webstats do I notice some traffic coming from their awards link.

Yes, now then I know I’m one of the few lucky ones to receive a nomination for their very own 1st Anniversary Blog Awards Voting! Thanks guys, I feel so honoured.

Guess what? It’s also my virgin nomination I’ve gotten for my blog.

Hmm, shall I start to craft a Thank You speech? haha.. well, really, whether or not I win this category, I am already very, very surprised and thrilled to have my name listed there.

Is this the latest trend in UK?

Well, it looks like it, according to this article. Known as “cougars” referring to women who prey on much younger men to date.

It’s not a passing fad, as one of the leaders of the cougars pack Karin, has been dating her current boyfriend for the past two years. For your information, the age gap between them is an eye-popping 22 years. That’s right.

While some women are flattered being coined as a cougar, like Karin, there are others who are flabbergasted by such terms.

A brief extract on this debate goes like this:

I’m sure you’ve heard of it, and I’ve seen many fellow bloggers who have signed up and are now earning a real passive income.

Totally passive, as the Agloco viewbar, once downloaded and installed, sits snugly and quietly at the bottom there’s an option to place it on top too) of your internet browser. It is compatible with both Internet Explorer and Firefox. As I’m using both, I’m pretty surprised to find all my favourites in both browsers being integrated in this viewbar.

Results so far

Am wondering if I should be posting about this. After all it’s not about love and marriage, nor is it about dating and relationships. Just an update on my health.

But, I thought, maybe my readers may be wondering what’s it with the long wait in between each post for the past 3 weeks. Has Kloudiia gone missing?

Well, truth is I have been struggling to get well from a flu virus! Sob sob Supposedly recuperating, but I was struck again. And when I was really getting much better, the greedy, and slightly starting-to-take-my-recovery-for-granted side of me tookover on last Thursday. 2 dumplings and I was back to the sore throat status the very next day which developed to bronchitis.

“Kloudiia

My best friend’s cousin is living with him now because of something her dad did and when I go over my friends house she always hangs out with my friend, his brother, and me. She always hangs out with them but just the other day I went to a movie theater with them (Chunky’s) and I won a necklace and a stuffed animal out of an arcade game there. I had no idea what the necklace said but I got it and she wanted it, I gave it to her and she looked at it and saw it said “love me lots” on it. She told me and I said I had no idea cause I didn’t. Ever since I gave her she has been wearing it and she wanted to win an orange carebear in the machine and I tried to get it for her but I just couldn’t. It was jammed in there, so I gave her the little dog I won (she was happy after I gave it to her).

Now, I have an entire sales copy just to sell a book that costs $22.90.

And, I have testimonies from people to convince you that this book is a real good buy. Something that can probably add sparkles to your otherwise fading-out relationship, or something that brings hope to an otherwise faltering love.

Then, I have promotions every now and then to increase the value of the book.

But, all these, it seems, aren’t as powerful as what I am going to say below. Or rather, what I have said to my friend over msn last night. (to the best of my recollection)

We walk by faith
and not by sight.

How often have we asked ourselves this question?

When was the last time you really relaxed, without a stir of emotions except for pure tranquil and peace, without a single thought in your mind.

When was the last time you gave someone a really big tight hug, and received one of equal warmth?

When was the last time you felt a great sense of satisfaction?

When was the last time you were feeling so excited that you can’t stop talking and your feet are ready to leave the ground?