“Kloudiia

How to make a man take action, which he doesn’t even though he is interested?” - S

Hi S
You are caught in an embarassing situation, aren’t you? Well, fret not, for I will give you some tips and strategies to nudge your man into taking action so you can bag him into your world.

But before you plunge into action, are you so sure that he’s interested in you? If he is, then do you know what are the reasons for his inaction? Have you checked if he is Mr Available? Meaning single and not attached.

If he’s just too shy to approach or just clueless, these are what you can do to bring the poor guy out of his hole.

Are you ready? Here goes …

7 Tips & Strategies To Woo A Man Secretly

1. Get his attention. Alright, if he’s into you, chances are you are already under his radar. Now you have to show him he’s got your attention too. Do this by complimenting him on little things he do or say, even on his appearance. For example, “I remember you like to eat prawns” during lunch/dinner. “You look good in that red tie you wore the other day” He’ll feel flattered and knows you are noticing him more than the rest.

2. Smile. Give your most radiant smile whenever you see him. The kind of smile that says more than just a, smile.

3. Gaze longer. Maintain eye contact longer than usual. Your eyes can speak a lot if you know how to divert your energy and feelings towards them.

4. Ask him out. This is the most direct action you can take. Yes, if he’s still not reacting much to your hints, ask him out. Make it as casual as possible.A movie date sounds good enough for a first and pretty harmless. If you guys enjoy it, proceed to dinner.

If you says “No” do not sound or look dejected immediately! Remain chirpy and ask if he’s got something on that day, then ask again.

5. Show your interest. Blatantly. I mean, as obvious as you can without shooting “I like you. Can we date?” from your mouth. One reason he’s not taking any action could be the fear of rejection as he hasn’t got a sense of how you feel towards him. If he knows you do have eyes for him, then he’ll be encouraged to make his first move.

6. Dress to impress. Men are visual. The more you attract them with your appearance, the more motivated they are. Tune up your attraction quotient so high that he’ll get burnt if he continue sitting on his bum and not moving.

7. SOS! This can be one of the best strategy so far. Man loves to rescue the damsel in distress and be the hero. If there’s nothing you need help on, create it! This gives you more personal time with him on “official” affairs, which means you can make use of this to have more interaction on “unofficial” affairs. Remember to use #1,2,3 and 5. #6 can be the killer to make him cave in.

Best part is - you finally have an official reason to treat him to dinner! Isn’t this a date already?

While the above can be used in combination or seperately, do always remember this - do not be the agressor. What you need to do is be proactive to give signals for him to act, and not really to go all the way out to go after him. A man still likes to pursue, and a woman still enjoys the attention and feeling of being pursued.

And when he really does make his move, be as natural as you can. Show your excitement, but do not be too desperate! You will lose your attractiveness in this way.

Attract him to move towards you, not you throwing yourself at him.

On hindsight, his inaction may have certain underlying meaning. There are many ways to look at this, like his confidence, his fear of rejection or loss of face, procrastination, bad previous experiences etc. If he’s not confident to go after a woman he likes, then what other areas can you see his confidence and assertiveness? If a man has issues with this, in my opinion he needs towork on it.

He must have some qualities that endears you to him, otherwise you wouldn’t be toying with this idea to go after him. So, just relax, take a deep breath and make your entrance, subtely.

Hope this helps, and certainly looking forward to hearing your success story soon. You will update me, won’t you?

Cheers, Kloudiia

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