An Unfair Connection?

This sounds eerie, but there is nothing psychic about it.

It is just the way two person connects. Biological twins are known to to have this type of connection, or telepathy. When one is sick, the other lies in bed too.

My sister has had this flair since young. She can feel that a family member isn’t feeling well even when we’re apart. I have always wondered why and where she got this ability from.

Until I’m in the league myself.

Wooh, strange. Suddenly, we echo each other’s words at the same time or just within a split second difference. I get a sms with words of encouragement and inspiration just when I was bitten all over by stress bugs. I was asked a question that hits the nail on the head of what has been troubling me for hours.

Was it my body language, or my facial expression that is giving my thoughts away? Maybe. But for those that happened when we are physically apart, how do we explain it?

That’s why I call it the Unfair Connection.

It’s unfair because not everyone is able to connect with you in this manner and on this level. This connection may last, or it may not. You may be completing each other’s sentence, only to wake up the next day and speak at totally different frequencies that makes you befuddled.

Me and my boyfriend were playing with how strong our telepathy is (if it does exist) by putting our heads together and guessing what we bought for each other for Valentine’s Day. It was real fun, and surprisingly, while I got my answer spot on, he got his very close (as it really wasn’t any sort of gift). He was able to describe the nature of it.  

Guess what I learnt also? I learnt that the more you “force” yourself to feel the connection, the more it eludes you. Because it happens only when you are relaxed, and your mind is clearer. Therefore if you are experiencing lots of stress and been thinking of a lot, you will find your ability to telepathise and guess your partner or friend’s thoughts largely compromised.

So don’t worry if you can’t read your partner’s thoughts yet. It will come slowly as you continue to love and nurture each other in a loving, postiive, encouraging and supportive way. It is not a sign that love is absent, it’s just a matter of not there, yet.

Stay relaxed, happy and in love. At the most, just ask instead of stressing to guess.

[tags]Connection,Relationships,People,Telepathy,Love,Soulmates[/tags]

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