“Hi Kloudiia,

I used to have this crush to this particular guy. We met in school, quickly finding out that we have similar interests, and quickly building up a relationship.

It was really sparkling and all that. But then suddenly he became cold, like there was nothing between us. I cannot find what is wrong. We just got more and more apart.

Probably he is very busy. He took whole load of courses and still participating in many CCAs. But really, I thought he liked me.

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“Kloudiia

I have been dating my girifriend since last year January. After 4 months she had to go back to America to study and to work. Everything went well until a few days ago I was online chatting with her. She said, she does not want to ger married, no children, doesn’t want to come back for good. I felt very upset and started to cry.

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“Hi,  as much as I am ready and eager to start a new relationship, I just don’t happen to meet any new or potential partner.. what’s the best way to get to know someone new?” - J

Dear J

Guess what I’m going to say?

There’s no one best way to meet anyone, because every way can be a good or bad way! It really depends on what do you want.

Before we go into the places where you can meet new friends, let’s work on another issue that is nagging at me as I read your question. It sounds to me that you may not even be sure of the type of person you are looking for. Do you?

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… it could be also a hug!

What am I talking about? It’s our love languages!

Finally, after hearing all the accolades on this book, I bought it from MPH Bookstore and finished reading it. At last!

I’m referring to this wonderful book by Dr Gary Chapman – “The Five Love Languages“.

This is a very readable book. Why do I say that? Because of the way it is written, with lots of real life couple stories that Dr Chapman shared through his experience of working with them to resolve their marital issues.

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This book saved me. Literally.

It pulled me out of the self-wallowing, insecure, non-believer in men and relationship pond and pushed me into the mutual-understanding and learning, secure and believer in relationship pasture.

If my sister hadn’t asked, implored, nudged, pushed and finally ”screamed” at me to go buy the book, I am dead certain that I won’t be who I am today, and you won’t be reading this blog. Instead, you may hear all my victim stories and lamentation.

I finally bought this book in Hong Kong, and I read it.

I read it again.

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