LOVE, Kloudiia

“Kloudiia

Hi, I am only 18 but I have lost all my confidence in guys. I first started having my first relationship when I was 16 and that was my last. I never did trusted another guy after because I felt that all they were saying were flattering and all lies. My first relationship was like a breeze, it came a little too soon and gone with the wind even before anything much started. It lasted for only three months. But I was into what he said, stuffs like “I love you till the end of time and space”, ” For you are the brightest star, no other stars I therefore see.” Please help me to regain my trust and confidence in men.” - P

Dear P

Sweet 18! Many girls your age are fantasising about being swept off their feet by their prince charming, and my heart goes to you for having to carry on such a huge burden from your last relationship.

The reason you’ve lost the ability to trust men could be due to the fact that your first boyfriend “betrayed” the trust that you had unequivocally given to him. You were not prepared for such a fast exit when you’re barely warmed up enough to relish in the joy that a first love usually brings.

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