Comments on: Love Advice: “His Wife Found Out About Us” http://www.kloudiia.com/love-advice-his-wife-found-out-about-us Bringing out the love and beauty in your relationship and marriage Wed, 27 Apr 2011 15:31:23 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Ed http://www.kloudiia.com/love-advice-his-wife-found-out-about-us/comment-page-1#comment-1670 Ed Sun, 14 Jan 2007 23:02:14 +0000 http://www.kloudiia.com/805/love-advice-his-wife-found-out-about-us/#comment-1670 Love - need not always be in possession of that person. Love can also mean letting go, even when it's hard. I'll borrowed a quote from Kloudiia... It hurts, but it's going to heal. If J loves him, then she wouldn't want him to be caught in the centre. Afterall, to love someone also means to see the person happy. We can't change fate, of how we met and how we fell in love, but we can change our decisions and determine our own destiny. Love – need not always be in possession of that person. Love can also mean letting go, even when it’s hard. I’ll borrowed a quote from Kloudiia… It hurts, but it’s going to heal.

If J loves him, then she wouldn’t want him to be caught in the centre. Afterall, to love someone also means to see the person happy. We can’t change fate, of how we met and how we fell in love, but we can change our decisions and determine our own destiny.

]]> By: Bored Dad http://www.kloudiia.com/love-advice-his-wife-found-out-about-us/comment-page-1#comment-1666 Bored Dad Sun, 14 Jan 2007 21:42:03 +0000 http://www.kloudiia.com/805/love-advice-his-wife-found-out-about-us/#comment-1666 Yes, it's no wrong to love someone, for loving someone never need a reason. But if such love relationship is breaking up a family, a marriage of another, I'll choose to walk away. Cause it's my perception that if someone can break away from his/her family/marriage to be with you, there is no guarantee that he/she wouldn't do the same to you. It's hurtful, painful and stressful to be a 3rd party, so why subject myself to this situation in the first place? Confusion is the result of refusal to make a decision. Once a decision is made, things will get more clearer. Yes, it’s no wrong to love someone, for loving someone never need a reason. But if such love relationship is breaking up a family, a marriage of another, I’ll choose to walk away.

Cause it’s my perception that if someone can break away from his/her family/marriage to be with you, there is no guarantee that he/she wouldn’t do the same to you.

It’s hurtful, painful and stressful to be a 3rd party, so why subject myself to this situation in the first place?

Confusion is the result of refusal to make a decision. Once a decision is made, things will get more clearer.

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