LOVE, Kloudiia

7 Tips & Tricks To Kiss Your Girlfriend For The First Time

1. Rent a video

Hey stop laughing people! I’m not kidding! You really can learn lots of moves by watching movies. Of course, please have some self-imposed standards and go for the ones with “class”, not some trashy X-rated porn films.

Rule of thumb is – if you want to model after someone, please find a high quality one so that your girlfriend will feel special and honoured too. (A girl loves to be kissed by a prince, not a frog. Ok I’m kidding :D)

2. Do not go for the cherry first

That is to say, you don’t have to kiss her lips first. You can start with her forehead, then nose, then cheeks before lightly brushing across her lips.

If she responds favourably like slightly parting her lips as an invitation for a deeper kiss or arching of her neck to be closer or if she starts to tiptoe (if you are standing), then you know she’s more than ready to be kissed.

And to kiss you in return!

This technique has an extra advantage – i.e it builds up the suspense between the two of you, and that only means you’ll have a more enjoyable time doing the real wet one after a string of kissing foreplays.

3. Spring a surprise!

Yes, sometimes the pressure comes from within when you feel that it’s time for you to do something (i.e kiss). Why not let spontaneity rule the game for a change?

Tell your lady that she will be kissed, when she most least expect it. Make it sound so surprising, when in actual fact you are rumbling internally on how and when to kiss her! (You don’t have to let her know this, you know? *wink*)

When you see the chance to give her a quick peck on her cheek or lips, do it. It’s just a one-second thing. Make it snappy – touch and go. Do not allow your mind to think about the position or anything. Just do it.

Then cover your mouth and say “Oops! I kissed you! I didn’t know that feels so good. I think I’m floating … “

Then ask her “Do you want more?” in a most cheeky way you ever can perform.

4. Why not the other way?

Since your girlfriend wants to kiss, why not let her do the initiation? Ask her about it. Of course, in a very cheeky and playful way. Or ask her to do a little demo for you on how she likes to be kissed.

You may be amazed at how much a woman like to take the first step to be more intimate with her loved one. But, just as she’s so close to touching your lips, you take that last 1mm leap and kiss her.

Well, you are still the one who kissed her first, isn’t it? Technically speaking, that is.

5. Lubricatingly wet or …

This one sounds more like a not-to-do than to-do. Guys, women understand that a wet kiss is sexy.

But, there’s a whole lot of difference between a heart-pumping head-knocking wet kiss versus a sloppy saliva-drowning wet kiss! Do you see where the key is?

6. Relax, and breathe.

How do you expect yourself to kiss your girl when your muscles are all tensed up and you can’t even move an inch closer towards her, much less to hold her in your embrace and give her a big fatty smoochie?

So, take some long deep breaths, and as you allow yourself to inhale creativity in, you exhale anxiety out. Repeat this as many times as you need to relax. Each time you do it, you …

Inhale love, exhale worry. Inhale excitement, exhale doubt. Inhale action, exhale procrastination. Inhale sense for intimacy, exhale sense of privacy.

7. Last but not least, for the first kiss …

K.I.S.S! Keep It Simple & Sweet NJ.

But I’m talking about the very first time. The one that follows 2 seconds later is the second one. You can have the full stage time by then.

Women feel when we are kissing and being kissed. Therefore, it’s really the feeling that counts. For the first time, that is. If you don’t learn how to be a better kisser, then you may lose out on the physical pleasure that a good kissing session can bring for both of you.

Grab a book on the techniques to be a good kisser. Tracey Cox has some good ones on physical intimacy that always come with good graphics. You can check out the bookstores for one that teaches this explicitly. (not for an underage I’m afraid)

But nothing beats real practice, plus real feedback from your princess herself!

Before I go, please always remember to practise personal hygiene. If you are a smoker, do take note to get rid of any tobacco smell before you kiss her. Or if you have a goatee, be prepared that you may need more practice to get that perfect position where she won’t die from laughing by the tickling.

Just Do It NJ. It’s Christmas time!

If all else fails, use these last 2 resorts. Only if all else fails.

8. Stand under the mistletoe

Hey, she has to kiss you or the other way round isn’t it? So now that you know this, it’ll really be your fault (big time!) if you bring her to a party without a mistletoe!

For we all know anyone who stands under the mistletoe HAS TO KISS! Right?

9. Fake this

Fake it till you make it. Oh I really shouldn’t be saying this. But, maybe you can pretend to have a mild asthma attach and you are gasping for air. Well by right she will give you a quick mouth-to-mouth resuscitation.

That’s still a kiss isn’t it? Hey, it’s a noble one! It’s the kiss of life!

Ok that’s all I have. Good luck, have fun and here’s wishing you a MERRY KISSINGALICIOUS CHRISTMAS & A HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Cheekily and happily, Kloudiia

P.S Alright, if you really need practice before the real thing, drop me a smoochie here. Though a virtual kiss but it still shows your love for your girlfriend and I’m sure she’ll melt into your arms when she sees it. Which means you have to bring her to this site to see what smoochie you left ha!

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