R may not think nor feel that she is a ‘good looker’, but the fact is that she is able to attract a popular guy to chat with her much of the time, on-line or off-line. There must be something about R that attracted that popular guy, isn’t it?

Instead of banging on the negative, why not focus more on the positive? One may be beauty to a person but yet may not to another. Some of my friends had commented about Kloudiia when her photo came out in the newspapers, they said her looks was ‘so so’ only. But to me, her dedication and committment to help the singles had already made her much beautiful than many other girls.

Here come the good old naggy sayings, at this delicate age of 16, relationship will really only cause more stress and headache than romantic puppy lovey feeling, especially if one can’t manage well. Perhaps, let’s focus more about ‘O’ level first, once it’s over and than let’s see if your heart still beats faster whenever he chat with you. Stay as friend and a close buddy first. I confessed to my first gf after my ‘O’ level exams too, and she was a close friend and buddy all the while during the school days.

My younger brother is also a good example that started dating during ‘O’ level too, in fact, it started when both of them were Sec 2, but they managed to focus on their studies first and then let the ‘fire’ burn brighter after their ‘O’ level, and after 20+ years, the fire is still buring bright and have two kids already.