Comments on: Love Advice: “I Am Excessively Shy And Thus I Have No Dates” http://www.kloudiia.com/love-advice-i-am-excessively-shy-and-thus-i-have-no-dates Bringing out the love and beauty in your relationship and marriage Wed, 27 Apr 2011 15:31:23 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Bored Dad http://www.kloudiia.com/love-advice-i-am-excessively-shy-and-thus-i-have-no-dates/comment-page-1#comment-4657 Bored Dad Sat, 03 Mar 2007 03:08:37 +0000 http://www.kloudiia.com/935/love-advice-i-am-excessively-shy-and-thus-i-have-no-dates/#comment-4657 Well, R certainly is not that shy to write to Kloudiia, isn't it? Which is already a good start. When meeting with new people, forget about your own shyness, and don't even think about that you are a shy person. I do think that you focus too much of yourself and your shyness, thus causing you to have some difficulties to making new friends. Making friends are from the heart, sincerity and honesty. No matter how shy you are, you still do go out and walk around, shopping, work and interact with those that already your friends, right? I certainly don't think you are that shy till you are staying at home or your room 24/7, right? It's isn't always necessary to go bar, pubs to make new friends, and honestly, sometimes, friends from such places aren't always a real friend either, as such, I suggest that you look into areas where your hobbies are, if you like to read, there are some reading clubs or activities going on, participate in these clubs or activities will certainly helps you to make friends. Also, a word of advise, making friends is not about you, making friends is about others, if you can love and care for others, you can make friends already. Well, R certainly is not that shy to write to Kloudiia, isn’t it? Which is already a good start.

When meeting with new people, forget about your own shyness, and don’t even think about that you are a shy person. I do think that you focus too much of yourself and your shyness, thus causing you to have some difficulties to making new friends.

Making friends are from the heart, sincerity and honesty. No matter how shy you are, you still do go out and walk around, shopping, work and interact with those that already your friends, right? I certainly don’t think you are that shy till you are staying at home or your room 24/7, right?

It’s isn’t always necessary to go bar, pubs to make new friends, and honestly, sometimes, friends from such places aren’t always a real friend either, as such, I suggest that you look into areas where your hobbies are, if you like to read, there are some reading clubs or activities going on, participate in these clubs or activities will certainly helps you to make friends.

Also, a word of advise, making friends is not about you, making friends is about others, if you can love and care for others, you can make friends already.

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