And sometime, I also can’t understand some women (or girls) like to go after a married man who is so clear that she is basically a ‘toy’, ‘spare tyre’, and extra affair, and yet still so madly in love. Not forgetting that she is actually breaking up a family. If you are in the wife’s shoes, do you want such things to happen to you? And how would you feel when your husband does that to you?

When you knew that he is already a happily married man, why do you still plunge in and wanting to get involved with him the first place?

Wake up from your fantasy and stop breaking up a happy family. What you sow today is what you will reap. I’m sure you are much smarter than this and doing all these foolish things to hurt yourself. There will be no happy ending but countless heartbreaks and tears if you continue.

And lastly, I’m sure your self-worth is not that low, right? So why put yourself to be in such position? Why choose to be with a man that can’t be with you even after office hours? Why choose to be with a man that clearly is playing around with your emotion towards him? Please wake up, will you?

In leaving him – It hurts, but it will heal.