Comments on: Love Advice: “She Is Blowing Hot and Cold. Should We Reconcile, Or Not?” http://www.kloudiia.com/love-advice-she-is-blowing-hot-and-cold-should-we-reconcile-or-not Bringing out the love and beauty in your relationship and marriage Wed, 27 Apr 2011 15:31:23 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Bored Dad http://www.kloudiia.com/love-advice-she-is-blowing-hot-and-cold-should-we-reconcile-or-not/comment-page-1#comment-2125 Bored Dad Fri, 26 Jan 2007 12:17:33 +0000 http://www.kloudiia.com/832/love-advice-she-is-blowing-hot-and-cold-should-we-reconcile-or-not/#comment-2125 I just like to add on to what Kloudiia has said, your gf is what she is now may be because she is as confused as you are, not knowing what she wants and neither where she want to go. But instead of just focusing on yourself, how you feel, or how you were being treated, why not spare some thought for her and on her? Think why she is behaving this way and how you can help her. Instead of forcing her to make a decision, why not see how you can help her to make a decision? Remove the focus from yourself and focus more about her, how she feel and why, try your best to be an understanding person, supportive and encouraging, helpful, and be there for her. Was it really that important how you were being treated on 31 Jan 07? Or the mind state and the heart affair about your gf is more important than that? I do think that at time, if only we man can put down our own pride and spare a thought for our partner, there will be many more successful relationship in this world already. I just like to add on to what Kloudiia has said, your gf is what she is now may be because she is as confused as you are, not knowing what she wants and neither where she want to go.

But instead of just focusing on yourself, how you feel, or how you were being treated, why not spare some thought for her and on her? Think why she is behaving this way and how you can help her. Instead of forcing her to make a decision, why not see how you can help her to make a decision? Remove the focus from yourself and focus more about her, how she feel and why, try your best to be an understanding person, supportive and encouraging, helpful, and be there for her.

Was it really that important how you were being treated on 31 Jan 07? Or the mind state and the heart affair about your gf is more important than that? I do think that at time, if only we man can put down our own pride and spare a thought for our partner, there will be many more successful relationship in this world already.

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