LOVE, Kloudiia

“Hi Kloudiia, I am 26 and have been dating this gal for the past 2 years but we shared little intimacy because she felt uncomfortable. I used to share intimacy with my exes but because I really love my present girlfriend, I respected her. I am not saying we must have sex but the furthest we went was petting. Is there any ways to be more intimate with her or any things i can do to spice up our relationship, things like that?” - S  

Dear S 

And may I applaud you for having and showing your respect for your girlfriend! I know how much self-control it takes to calm those raging hormones, and you’re probably wondering why can’t you show your intense love for her through actions, and not just words?

Ha ha, well, whatever reasons your girlfriend has, that’s her boundary. And you know what? I congratulate you because you are with a girl who knows how to take care of herself. 

This lady here had the same question, you may like to read about it: Love Advice: “Pre-Marital Physical Intimacy – How Far Should We Go?”

Intimacy takes on many different levels. Do not just think horizontal (er-hem), think lateral!

Physical intimacy is only one form. How about other forms, like intellectual intimacy, emotional or even spiritual? Explore those areas, and you may start to marvel at the speed and rate at which you two can deepen the love and bond with each other that sets a solid foundation for your relationship.

As for other things that can spice things up, my book has all the answers! Watch out for the launch. Or subscribe now and you’ll have insider details that nobody has yet.

 

“How do I make girl feel attracted to me? Because I have a crush with a girl in my school and I do not have the courage to tell her I like her a lot” - N

Hey N

Have you downloaded my Attraction Quotient eBook? If you haven’t, do it now. You may find the answers inside. 

Read this and see how I adviced this man in the same situation as you to approach the girl he’s had a crush for: Love Advice: “How To Approach Her?”

All the best to you N! Do let us know when you’ve made progress! We’re all here to support and encourage you, you know that don’t you?  

 

“How to maintain a long lasting relationship with your partner?” - R

Hey R

What do you think? There are too many secrets to a loving and lasting relationship. And good news is, you don’t have to go to the end of the world to unearth them. I’ve done that for you - in my upcoming book!

Stay tuned… or sign up as a subscriber now and be the FIRST to know!

 
“I am a failure in releationship..I always thought that I am a wonderful man which all gals are crazy for..Question: Why do relationship don’t last as we always assumed and expected? Is there really true love? I am really sick and tired of pleasing and loving gals…Need help and advice…men are better I guess..as least they don’t cheat..!!!” - R

Whoa R! In a short 3-sentence message, I see and hear lots of limiting beliefs and unresourceful presuppositions about love, relationship and humans!

Let’s do it this way. Continue to think and believe that you’re a wonderful man, and then let your thoughts manifest into good actions and words that speak for itself. But if you use this to fool yourself into thinking that you’re Mr Perfect in every girl’s eyes, maybe that’s why your relationship don’t last as long as you want. You could just be a live walking mammal with a too-huge-for-good ego that’s threatening to burst any second unless you learn to nip it in and learn to be more sincere. That can be a major downfall in any relationships. 

You mean in gay relationships, men don’t cheat on men? How do you know? Find out the truth before you make statements like that. I don’t get affected when I hear them, but your mind do get poisoned by such thoughts. You know as well as I do that when you input garbage into your mind, what you get out? Trash of course! 

How do you please girls? By doing things you like to do for them and feel they should learn to appreciate and reciprocate, or by doing things that really please them, according to their expectations and not yours?  

Have you communicated with them well enough to know their likes and dislikes, and how they like to be loved? If you have and you are still not getting results, I would suspect your strategies could be flawed. Love coaching can help you in this area. Let me know if you’re considering this option.

Stay wonderful R. That’s one good belief you should have, just tune it slightly to display sincerity, genuinity and humility. It should work.

Best regards! 

 
“I’m a lost soul ..Hope that you can help me to find a ways out to a peaceful life ahead..By feeling all the happiness & love from my loved ones..” – MK

Dear MK

Hmm… while my advice for you is to get love coaching (as to find yourself back on track in life is not achievable by one reply like this), I can’t resist to comment on something you’ve said.

I hope when you say “By feeling all the happiness & love from my loved ones” you don’t mean receiving only? Because if you only feel peaceful when you receive enough love, maybe you should consider giving first.

When you give love, you will receive. Not necessarily in the form of reciprocated love, but also in the joy that’s built-in in the act of giving. That, is also love. And when you have it, when you are aware you can feel it, and when you allow yourself to be filled by it, peace will be in your heart.

All the best to you all.

Lovingly, Kloudiia

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