Comments on: The “Worst” Thing To Tell A Woman http://www.kloudiia.com/the-worst-thing-to-tell-a-woman Loving, Laughing, Sharing, Living Fri, 10 Sep 2010 06:12:51 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: kloudiia http://www.kloudiia.com/the-worst-thing-to-tell-a-woman/comment-page-1#comment-158645 kloudiia Wed, 09 Sep 2009 12:13:37 +0000 http://www.kloudiia.com/?p=1628#comment-158645 Well Chris, apparently, some surveys of women have shown that "A sense of humour" tops the list of the traits they're looking for in a guy! In this case, the guy in question does seem to have a wicked, rather than warm, sense of humour that just about hit the right chords with the right person! Good for both of them! Well Chris, apparently, some surveys of women have shown that “A sense of humour” tops the list of the traits they’re looking for in a guy! In this case, the guy in question does seem to have a wicked, rather than warm, sense of humour that just about hit the right chords with the right person! Good for both of them!

]]> By: Chris Shaw http://www.kloudiia.com/the-worst-thing-to-tell-a-woman/comment-page-1#comment-158493 Chris Shaw Tue, 08 Sep 2009 06:25:43 +0000 http://www.kloudiia.com/?p=1628#comment-158493 Kloudiia, Regarding “The Worst Thing to Tell a Woman”, here’s an entertaining anecdote. I don’t know if it actually happened the way it’s described, but even if the story has been embellished it’s still wickedly funny, so I think that your readers may enjoy it. After using an internet dating service without much success for what seemed like far too long, a frustrated (but perceptive) guy realized two things. First, many women posted profiles in which they were ambiguous (or even contradictory) about what they wanted from a man - “someone who is careful with my feelings and always tells the truth”, for example. The second thing the guy recognized was that he had no earthly idea how to respond to such a situation. So, he decided to use the direct approach – ask. A woman whom he found extremely attractive had written that she wanted a man who was not only “very strong”, but who also had a “soft, sensitive heart underneath – a real gentleman with a warm sense of humor, who is honest to fault”. In reply to that, our hero laboriously composed a very nice email that ended with the following paragraph: “There is one more thing that piqued my curiosity. When you ask one of those quintessentially female questions (“Do you think I’ve gained weight?” or “Does this dress make me look fat?” or “Don’t you just love ….. whatever or whomever?” or “Do you ever fantasize about someone else when you’re with me?”), should a man 1) be “soft and sensitive” (big hug, no words), 2) show his “warm sense of humor” (by laughing until he cries, without actually answering the question) or 3) be “honest to fault? “Yes, you’ve gained a LOT of weight. Yes, it makes you look enormous. No, since you asked, the truth is that I loathe it (or them), and yes, I frequently fantasize about other women, usually one of your closest friends”. If the legend is to be believed, the woman was so amused by his message that she not only replied, she eventually met the man and she continues to see him. Chris Shaw Kloudiia,

Regarding “The Worst Thing to Tell a Woman”, here’s an entertaining anecdote. I don’t know if it actually happened the way it’s described, but even if the story has been embellished it’s still wickedly funny, so I think that your readers may enjoy it.

After using an internet dating service without much success for what seemed like far too long, a frustrated (but perceptive) guy realized two things. First, many women posted profiles in which they were ambiguous (or even contradictory) about what they wanted from a man – “someone who is careful with my feelings and always tells the truth”, for example. The second thing the guy recognized was that he had no earthly idea how to respond to such a situation. So, he decided to use the direct approach – ask. A woman whom he found extremely attractive had written that she wanted a man who was not only “very strong”, but who also had a “soft, sensitive heart underneath – a real gentleman with a warm sense of humor, who is honest to fault”. In reply to that, our hero laboriously composed a very nice email that ended with the following paragraph:

“There is one more thing that piqued my curiosity. When you ask one of those quintessentially female questions (“Do you think I’ve gained weight?” or “Does this dress make me look fat?” or “Don’t you just love ….. whatever or whomever?” or “Do you ever fantasize about someone else when you’re with me?”), should a man 1) be “soft and sensitive” (big hug, no words), 2) show his “warm sense of humor” (by laughing until he cries, without actually answering the question) or 3) be “honest to fault? “Yes, you’ve gained a LOT of weight. Yes, it makes you look enormous. No, since you asked, the truth is that I loathe it (or them), and yes, I frequently fantasize about other women, usually one of your closest friends”.

If the legend is to be believed, the woman was so amused by his message that she not only replied, she eventually met the man and she continues to see him.

Chris Shaw

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