Top 10 Women Turn-Ons #2
04 Dec 2006
Top 10 Women Turn-Ons #2: The Right Speaker.
He is not her Mr Right.Â
But, why? Haven’t women been waiting for Mr Right to come and sweep them off their feet with their shining bright armour riding on white horses?
Here comes the crunch.
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When someone has too much right with him, there’s nothing left. He is the almighty Mister Right.
Mister Right thinks he is always right. Even on the first date, she can’t go home until she completed the 100 nods and 50 “Yes I agree” benchmark. Her initial ignorance led her to voice her opinion in the hope of giving a fresh perspective, but were fully rebuked point by point until she feels totally deflated, and gasping for air.
Then it finally hit her that she’s on a date with Mister Right! (I haven’t met a lot of such guys, only miserly few. That’s good news isn’t it? But I was left dumb just to stop the ”debate” :D)
What women like? We like men with sound views on any issues that we may pop up, and we like them to dish their knowledge with such confidence that the air will just blow us off our feet and leave our jaws opened for at least 1 minute.
That may just sound slightly exaggerated. It’s just for illustration sake, but the concept really is we like men who are knowledgeable. It turns us on when a man has got such dense and depth in his skull.
I’ve asked many women, and they’ve given me a unanimous answer that a man is as sexy as how big his brain is.
But guys, if you start shooting off your mouth in defense on every big or small issue, that is far from being sexy! That is too overwhelming, and we certainly find it very offensive and unenjoyable. No, that’s not a sweet sensitive charming man we like to wrap our arms around, kiss and lick.
I know some women are Miss Right too. So if you are a girl reading this, I wonder how many potential Mr Rights you have frightened off by your imposing stature. Why don’t you give yourself a chance to mellow down and learn to accept differences for a change? But since this series is for the men, I’ll deal with this in a seperate post maybe.
If you have been Mister Right for all your life until now, may I strongly urge you to consider this suggestion to give your tongue and your date a break? I understand how tough it can be to hold your horse when it is threatening to break the gate. But, it could just be the make or break factor in the whole equation of dating and love.
Charm and confidence turns women on. But the almighty all-knowing always-right Mister Right may just need some tweaking on the presentation style of his confidence to do the trick. Wonderfully.
That could just be her Mr. Right.
[tags]Turn ons,Charm,Confidence,Mr Right,Dating[/tags]
10 Responses
2006 Dec 04
Hi Kloudiia! I am very very excited for you to post the next Turn-On!
Guess what?! I gave that card to her on saturday, and she kept in her bag!
Wohoo! I am going to continue to read your series!!!
Thanks so much kloudiia!
2006 Dec 04
Oh wow! Congrats C, and thanks so much for updating us here!
I’m getting dizzy from your excitement too *rolling eyes* haha
2006 Dec 04
Kloudiia, Your article has made to ponder about a statement… “What is more important? Being right? or Being Loved?
2006 Dec 05
Very good post!!!
You say what to *not* do. I’ll give my opinion on what not to do, but also on what to actually do:
* Don’t engange on intellectual topics (I mean, not on the first date). Don’t talk politics, religions, economics or C++ compilers.
* Don’t nitpick when on a date. Hell, don’t nitpick *ever*. Nitpicking is the worst social trait and immediately reveals unsociability and geekyness.
As a general rule, don’t debate, just amplify energy and connect at an emotional level. Amp up each other’s energy. If you disagree, disagree playfully, like “hey I can’t believe you don’t like Deep Purple as I do! I hate your guts now!”.
If you are half of the time saying “Yeah, me too, isn’t it great when you do XXX and you feel YYY?”, or, alternatively, “No way! You’re crazy! I prefer much more XXX than YYY, I can’t get along with girls that do YYY!”, you’re on the good track.
I’m short on time here. Might add more later. Props again on the post.
Rock Hard, Ride Free,
Wulfen
2006 Dec 05
Hi Denvouz, what’s the conflict between the two then?
Hey Wulfen, thanks for those brilliant additions!
I like this especially:
“hey I can’t believe you don’t like Deep Purple as I do! I hate your guts now!â€Â.
Now, is that directed at me, since my site is so puplish? haha
Thanks for dropping by again!
2006 Dec 09
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2006 Dec 12
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2006 Dec 12
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2007 Jan 07
Yea.. it is so true.. women turn-on for me is indeed a guy needs to be confident and knowledgable.. till now i still have not met my Mr Right.. i will continue to read your blog. Be sure to update regularly! I read the newpaper and got to know your blog. I’ll support you. Happy birthday!
2007 Jan 07
Thanks Vickie for your first smoochie.
You know, you will surely find Mr Right. Just have the right beliefs and you’ll have love in your life. Thanks for your support.
All the best to you too!