LOVE, Kloudiia

It’s the festive season period. The air is full of joy! So let’s make this a joyous and happy post, shall we?

How to be jovial?

By staying happy, chirpy and cracky! Spread your vibes!

Top 10 Women Turn-Ons #5: Mr Cracker

 

He’s not the handsome type, yet he almost always capture the attention of women, even in a group setting. It’s not that hard to locate his exact location in the room. All you need to do is simply follow this apparently obvious, clear and succint clue … 

Laughter.

Yes that’s right. That’s the focus on this post.

There are born comedians. Then there are made comedians. Whether born or made doesn’t really matter. What matters most is the desire to bring fun and laughter to people around them. 

So does it mean that anyone with such a desire will automatically come with the equivalent capability to make people laugh? Answer is, it depends.

For those who made it, it’s usually because they have this desire to bring joy to their dates. The result is he will be highly desirable because his company is priceless.

Take our local TV celebrity Mark Lee for example. I mean, he really doesn’t have much to impress with his looks, but he sure can leave an impression when he begins to shoot his mouth off with all his humour! 

If we were to compare two men – one who looks so suave and cool but decides to keep up his cool image by remaining cool (aka, aloofness plus no-conversationer) versus another who don’t really bother if he looks silly with funny faces or cracking jokes thus sending waves of laughter down the room throughout the night, who do you think will win the most number of hearts?

Yes, the joker will win hands down.

Though there are some women (a minority I would say) who will be swept over their feet by Mr Cool, but trust me, that kind of infatuation won’t last for too long. We get bored by looking at just a pretty face. It’s just not cool.

Can you turn into Mr Cracker if you aren’t one yet? Yes of course! But it won’t happen overnight, or over a day. It takes time to build up your humour cells and develop them into strong yet flexible muscles.

First and foremost, you need to have the desire. You need to want to be humourous. You need to crave for that ability to make your date laugh. For me, it’s really simple because fun is one of my values. Hence, bringing joy to people and entertaining them comes naturally joyful to me.

But if you’re the serious type who’s always wearing the business suit with a polka-dot tie (I’m joking! ), then I’d applaud you if you learn to loosen up. Not that loose till all your mental screws come off and roll all over the floor, but enough to take in humour and laugh.

We like men who make us laugh as well as those who can laugh at themselves! Similarly, men too love the company of women who don’t take things too seriously, who now how and when to relax and enjoy, and how to laugh at themselves without getting annoyed and upset easily. In this area, we are pretty similar aren’t we?

Since this post is about women turn-ons, I shan’t say too much about those women making the mistake of assuming the lead role of the comedian for the night and stealing any chance from the man to hit the high laughing notes in the song of dating.

But well, since I’m in it, I might as well say my piece! (Let’s sidetrack a bit)

I mean ladies, if you like the man to charm you and make you desirable, then let him do the job! Even if you had sniffed the punchline for that joke before he reached mid-way, please, give him the chance to be on the stage. He needs to deliver the punch line! Do not snatch away his chance to please you by hijacking it and being the smart girl (too smart I’d think), before gleefully laughing away, not at his joke but at your own intelligence.

Oh, that would be such a big mistake to commit girls. For all you know, that could be on the one and only joke he had for the night, after poking and begging his friends to provide him a really good one so that he can do what you’d like him to do – impress you and make you laugh!

Sometimes, women need to be somewhat co-operative if we were to hope to have the kind of results we like to have.

(Now back to this post again)

Lastly, another tip for the men before I wrap up. If you have been attempting to be humourous but keep failing repeatedly (you’ll know because she’s staring at you with that when-are-you-going-to-stop-your-nonsense look), then take that as feedback. Accept the fact that your jokes aren’t funny dude! Come up with better ones next time.

When things come to such a situation, then please stop all your attempts. Go back to real conversation instead. Be a listener, since you’re going to make more mistakes by talking more anyway.

One very last tip before I go (ok I’m long-winded yes), please do not ever joke about your date (e.g. his/her braces, the pair of funny out of place earrings) or some other less priviledged people. That’s really not funny. It just puts you in a very bad light as someone who’s mean, uncompassionate and insensitive.

That’s it, finally! Now, you can start laughing. I know you have been holding back too long.

[tags]Dating & Relationship,Love and Marriage,Turn-Ons,Laughter,Humour,Fun,Joy,Jokes[/tags]