LOVE, Kloudiia

Starting 2007 is the continuation of this series Top 10 Women Turn-Ons after a hiatus due to my holiday.

With so much to write about, I feel it makes sense to put this as the first post for this new year as the spirit of this series is in line with my motto for this blog – To Empower and Inspire You With Love.

 

 

Part 6 of this series really comes from personal experience and observation. Ladies, I’m sure if you’ve had first-hand encounter with such a man, you will feel exactly how I felt. The kind of warm fuzzy feelng that spirals in our hearts which is making it extremely hard for us to hide our smiles, no matter how many muscles we employ to resist it.

Guys, this tip that I’m going to unveil here is certainly not something very easy to accomplish. Because it requires lots and lots of your effort and consciousness to want to make it happen.

Top 10 Women Turn-Ons #6: Mr Sensitive

“Is your feet hurting?” my boyfriend asked.

“How did you know?” I was surprised that he knew because I didn’t even mention a word of it.

“I can see you’re limping a bit when walking” he said.

This is sensitivity to me.

“Your skin looks much better!” my colleague commented.

“You can see it too? I felt so too!” I replied, glad and amazed at the same time he was able to notice that my pores had shrunk and my complexion became finer, probably due to the winter season.

This is also sensitivity to me.

See where I am getting at guys? It takes acute observation to be sensitive to your date. Be it her emotions, likes or dislikes, if you are able to capture them without her verbally informing or hinting you, then you have just made her day or night!

Women have this special and unique sense of feeling that is attached to how observant a man is. Especially the subtle ones. If a man is able to pick up those clues and signals we are sending out, either deliberately or unconsciously (like the two scenarios I described above), our hearts flutter. Really.

It shows interest from the man if he is going after the girl. It shows genuine care and concern if he is a friend to her. Either way, it touches us deeply and we like to reciprocate.

So guys, if your date mentions very casually (sometimes even she didn’t realise she’s the one who let slip of this information) and you caught that and remembered, that only goes to show you really are interested in this person and you want to know as much about her as possible.

But if you find yourself too engrossed in everything except what she’s saying on that date, then you lose most chances of impressing her. Then again, this is also a litmus test on how much you like her. That’s why I say in the very beginning that being sensitive to her is not something that comes very easy. Becuase if you lack that genuine interest, you won’t be able to carry it out.

A sensitive man tells us lots about how he will deal with a relationship too. That’s why if a man is sensitive towards what we do and say, it implies certain quality traits in this person like tenderness, honesty and security. If a woman is looking for a life partner then she will want to give him more than a second look and date.

Again there are always two sides to a coin. It’s definitely a plus point to be sensitive, but do not be too overly sensitive for it can lead to your own downfall as well. Men who are over-sensitive tend to be suspicious and possessive. It reflects a poor self-esteem and lack of confidence in themselves as well as their relationships.

Another point I’d like to bring up here is to clarify what you have observed or noted. Do not jump to any conclusions too early unless you have known this person long enough to know that is what she is thinking of. It always pays to check with your date with what you have observed so that you can know her better while also letting her know that you are paying her your full attention. So it kills two birds with one stone by confirming with her.

In NLP, we term this as sensory acuity. It means to be have the ability to gain awareness of another person’s unconscious responses.

Mr Sensitive has a high chance of giving a woman the feeling of falling in love. Need I say more how attractive it makes him, to her?

Be as soft as a rose and as strong and sturdy as a tree

[tags]Turn on, Dating, Relationships, Attraction, Sensitive, Observing, Interest, Care, Concern[/tags]